Complacency

Sudden realizations hit me like a brick just now. It’s hard to be happy if you get complacent in your own personal progress. That doesn’t only apply to my transition but my personal growth as a human. Specifically though, I’ve become so complacent in my progress with my changes and progress that I haven’t made

Sex as a trans man is fuckin weird

Imagine feeling such a disconnect with yourself no matter how you have sex, no matter which gender you sleep with, every time you have sex you just dissociate completely. I remember struggling with even the thought of a sexual encounter as a early pubescent kid. It’s not that I necessarily dislike or get no excitement